I worked with a different counselor before listening to Nicola podcast and felt I needed to be taken to the next level and Nicola has done just that. :). You will truly be in safe, secure and a wise hands. After listening to most of the podcasts I decided to go visit Nicola, and she really helped me with what I was going through, and gave me actions that resulted in positive progress. I found Nicola from her podcasts and immediately felt a shift in how I felt and thought about things. Nicola Beer is a Relationship and Anxiety Specialist. Playlists from our community. In-person and teletherapy sessions available for those in Minnesota. Listen to #148 Noise Intolerance Misophonia And Marriage - Relationship Podcast and 188 more episodes by How To Save Your Marriage Podcast With Nicola ... and post-nuptial – can they save relationships or not?. Nicole is an experienced coach in all matters relating to relations and communication. Have found interacting with Nicola extremely professional and she always responds in excellent time. Nicola is an amazing counselor with a huge amount of discernment. This topic has 3 replies, 1 voice, and was last updated 1 year, 4 months ago by Erin. The space is very quiet and peaceful. I do. I have seen so much progress in my mental health and physical health since I’ve started courses with Nicola. Where it drives you up the wall. Support. Andy did the best he could to show empathy, remove himself and minimize the triggers. Nicola has been a true and caring professional throughout the past few years that I have known her. To live forever with whom you deem your soul mate, best friend, partner in crime? Here are some case studies of couples who are dealing with misophonia –. This deeply upset Karen, as she wanted her daughter to have a close bond with her father. I have now had several sessions with her and have physically felt a positive change in myself that has had a profound effect on my family. December 17, 2015 We’re not experts, but being married with misophonia definitely teaches you some things, fast. I have answers I couldn’t figure out on my own or get from my husband. It is worth your time and money. She is a very down to earth and understanding person and always has the best advice to give! She takes all the time one needs to feel comfortable and open up about issues hard to discuss otherwise, she brings a wealth of experience and wisdom and lets you see the world with a more objective eye for a best outcome ! If you are wanting to turn a corner, this is the program for you. I listen to her podcasts whenever I need some insight into my circumstances because she is able to explain complex issues very clearly and provides simple instructions or questions to ask oneself which have been instrumental to helping me positively change my perspective on things I previously couldn’t get past and this has ultimately given me peace of mind. US certified grief recovery specialist, life coach and hypnotherapist based in With the stress of a new marriage and a new baby I'm really on edge. Her results are real, even though she’s 12040kms from me. Misophonia and its Treatments. I have extensive training with the Misophonia Institute and continue to be affiliated with them as one of their providers Share. I was introduced to Nicola through her podcasts on Spotify. To live forever with whom you deem your soul mate, best friend, partner in crime? The result was they started to laugh at the misophonia, to see the funny side and when Andy now eats a pack of crisps watching the football game he turns up the volume . I am grateful for her support and encouragement. I worked with them both separately first to understand what was causing the most stress and ideas to resolve it. I would highly recommend her to anyone who is looking for a deeper understanding of self, personal growth and relationship understanding.Thank you for your guidance, your incredible ability to listen and guidance towards my self improvement:). I truly believe that because of her passion and genuine care, she is able to relate better and provide more practical ways how to overcome personal/carrer/ relationship issues. Misophonia affects up to 20 percent of the general population according to the data, but Dozier suspects that those numbers may be even higher because it’s underdiagnosed. I see positives everywhere even in difficult challenging conversations.Thanks you Nicola. I felt as though I had left the world for an hour which is just what I needed. I would strongly urge anyone who is searching for guidance to seek out Nicolas professional help. It causes divorce.”. As you can see from the case studies that there are a lot of feelings of shame and guilt when certain sounds are evoking unwanted or inexplainable responses – however it is important for us to remember that while others may perceive these as difficult reactions, they are involuntary and need attention rather than to pretend they don’t exist. Act 2: Misophonia comes in. Dr Nicola Beer has not only been a great counselor but also an amazing mentor to help build real life skills that will help put you on the path to become a better and more open minded person. I have horrendous thoughts already. Nicola is an amazingly professional and yet empathetic counselor. That's awesome. Andy and Sarah came to see me about an ongoing issue they were struggling to deal with. Tag: misophonia in marriage. Together we discussed issues and came up with a plan. My relatives talk to me all the time about what marriage is like, and almost … For example, taking time to talk your spouse through an episode where a sound is irritating them, ensuring they carry something with them that reduces the impact of noise, like ear plugs and distraction tools like repeating positive affirmations to replace the rage they are feeling. Her hypnotherapy and exercises have being source of light and has helped me clear out most of my negative thoughts and energy. Feeling happier and more at peace supported her with the irritable noises. I highly recommend Nicola - she is the genuine article. As Christians, we’re committed to our marriage, but there are days when I feel that my value is less than pond scum. My husband and I have been married for 4 years and have been together for 10. Excellent support and guidance; extremely professional with a very personal touch. Nicola is a very kind and thoughtful person with really sound advice! Nicola is the only counsellor I trusted to help me overcome my anxiety and grief. Her capacity for strength and clear seeing, as well as for compassion, make her a great asset by your side when the road is foggy, bumpy, or short enough. I have spent a fair amount of time with Nicola and she is wonderful. I don’t want to have children because I fear I won’t be a good mother. She also jokes that she will have responsibility for their children in the younger years and he can take over for the teenage years and give her a rest then.